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I know I'm late to this but I thought I'd share in the 18 category

This is one of the biggest things that helps a lot of us. Our forum and being able to talk about spankings that we wouldn't ever admit to share to somebody in person. It's hard enough here and almost impossible talking about in person right? Even the friends and family that know I get spanked I still deny it happened sometimes. Crazy but that's what I do lol.

Hi Anna Im sorry I thought I shared on this already but looking back quickly i don't think I did. So like everybody said and some way better than me did but I want to just say that I'm another one who knows how you feel. I'm also proud of you for sharing something so hard to share and I know it's not easy either so give your self some credit for that We are human and we all make mistakes and we do things knowing we are making a mistake but for some reason we can't seem to stop or get off the mistake train. I've been there and I know every other person here has been there too. Breathe and forgive yourself for that I think it's amazing that you and your new dad are comfortable enough with each other to share such a sensitive topic with each other so give yourself some credit for that. It's not easy talking about and especially with a dad and a new dad! Be proud! I think you're incredibly strong! You got your first spanking from him and you didn't loose your mind! Congratulations and be proud of yourself for that! Hopefully you'll get closer to him and I"m sure you will because it seems like he's a great guy and I know you're a great girl. I also think it's great that he's willing to talk to you and listen to you. Trust him and listen to what he says even though it might not be what you want to hear. And yeah easier said that done lol And just like a lot have said there are so many emotions involved with being in trouble and punished and then even more with being spanked that it takes time and sometimes a long long time to really understand. Its ok to think about it and for your thoughts to go all over the place. We're here to help, listen or anything you need!

Yes good for you! I get or got counselling from pastors too and it has really helped a lot! It's not easy sometimes telling or sharing that but it has and I think the more people who say they've had some counselling or whatever helps make it less stigmatized.

Congratulations to your mom on that huge step. I don't know how that must feel having that happen because my parents are married but I'm sure it's a mix of emotions. I am so happy to hear though that you like him and get along That is a lot to deal with all at the same time as school, your bf, thinking of the future and everyday stuff. I don't mean to sound like you can't handle it but have you thought of going to a counsellor for dealing with stress tips and tricks? It might help or if not then it was just an experience anyway right?

Hi Anna I liked your post and it wasn't boring at all. It's really brave to post all that and I think you should be proud of yourself. That's a lot of change going on that can rattle anybody! So take some time to relax and let things get settled. Maybe you could talk to your mom and her bf about rules before things get bad. My parents are paying for my university too so yeah they had a big say in where I'm going and pushed me into my program. I like it anyway but it was one of those things where they suggested a career that they new I'd be happy in and can actually do something in instead of 'just any program'. Definitely some fun chats about that! lol But they sound like they are helping you and that's amazing!