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  1. Something I learned as a teenager was not to talk to your parents the same way they talk to you. That is a very quick way to get an attitude adjustent.
  2. Unreal. If he wants to know if she is a virgin, he should just ask her. If she is gonna lie about that, then a medical report isnt gonna help the situation. And now that she is 18, anything like that should only happen with her agreement anyway. If she says no more reports, then daddy will have to accept that. I wonder what he would say if she took a detailed photo and emailed it to him, with a tag like "See for yourself, daddy!"
  3. If your friends are allowed to listen to those songs, can you get one of them to download it and edit it? Just to put a BEEP or something over those words. There is plenty of free software that can do it. Then you can load those up and play them iinstead My dad was VERY strict about certain words, if I ever used them I was in serious trouble. Didnt matter if anyone else used them, or they were on TV or whatever. If I was heard using any of those words, my bum was toast
  4. Woohoo! Communication is one of the most important things in any relationship, and you opened a channel that both of you can use in future
  5. Martha, what happens to your bottom when you get spanked is obvious and predictable. What happens in your head is harder to understand, and almost impossible to predict because it is different for each girl. You can spend the next six months trying to predict how you will feel, and still get no closer than you are now. My suggestion is to think about it long and hard if it helps... then throw all that thinking away, and go with what your heart says will be best for you in the future. I cant tell you what that is, only you can do that. Perhaps your heart has already decided and now you are trying to talk yourself into it, or out of it?
  6. Martha, how would you feel about printing out this whole thread, and "accidentally" leaving it somewhere that your mum is likely to see it? I dont know what the outcome would be, but the subject would be well and truly on the table then...
  7. I was wondering if your stepmother was thinking the same thing. Maybe she is finding it difficult to bring up the subject as well, yeah? So if one of you brings it up, you may find the other person is thinking OMG I am so glad you raised that subject...
  8. Martha, one more thing - spanking for teenagers is a lot more common that you realise. But nobody wants to admit it, understandably, so everyone thinks they are the only girl it ever happens to...
  9. Jack, I can only say what worked for me. We can all give advice but only Martha can find the right way through this. Prayer is a good start (And so is bed!)
  10. I guess an obvious question is, does she spank her own daughters? If she does, what is her attitude to it? Does she get totally stressed about it, or does she treat it like a normal part of family life?
  11. I got my new dad when I was 8, but I didnt accept him and I didnt let him get close to me for a long time. It was just me and mum, and I liked it that way. I didnt want to share mum with anybody else, yeah? Maybe that was selfish of me but thats the way it was. When I was 13 we had a big family meltdown. I figured it was the end, they were gonna get a divorce and I didnt really know what was gonna happen next. But instead of walking away, dad stepped up and took charge of everything. I was totally out of control, btw. I did whatever I wanted, didnt care about school, didnt care about anyone or anything. Mums idea of discipline was screaming and shouting, throwing things at me and chasing me all over the house. It was not pretty Dad had some long talks with me about where I wanted to go with my life, and where it was actually going instead. He knew I needed discipline, and even I knew he was right. But I wasnt gonna let anyone tell me what to do, yeah? Dad said a lot of things were gonna change and one of those things was that next time I misbehaved or got in trouble, I was gonna be spanked. I managed to stay out of trouble for about a week. That evening me and dad had a long talk about rules, behaviour, and why discipline was so important. When the talking was over I spent the next couple of minutes across his knee, with my knickers down, getting my bum smacked. I cried right from the start. First because of the embarrassment, but then because my bottom was on fire That was the first time it happened. I lost count of how many more I got over the next few years, but it was LOTS. I am older now so I can look back and say yeah, that was the right decision, that was totally what I needed. I wasnt so sure at the time! But I put my trust in my new dad, and he was right. He got me back on the right path and kept me pointed in the right direction. I didnt enjoy being straightened out again, over and over, but he never gave up on me, even when I gave up on myself. Your situation, tell me if I have got it wrong somewhere: you have never been spanked, your dad doesnt do that sort of thing. Your stepmum spanks her own girls, and she is wondering if it would be a good thing for you as well, but she isnt sure how to tell you that. You are not sure either, and you also arent sure how to say that out loud. You dont know if it would be good for you or not, but there is only one way to find out and after that you cannot go back to how it was before. Right? This is something your mum and dad should have discussed before getting married. Maybe they did, but they havent told you about it? You need to do a few things: - figure out how you feel about the possibility of being spanked, either by your mum or by your dad. - talk to your dad about this, tell him how you honestly feel. If you are prepared to accept it, say so. If you would rather pull your own head off than submit to a spanking, say so. - talk to your mum about this, tell her the same things you told your dad. - talk to both of them together, try to reach an agreement. If you cant decide, let them make the decision for you - but then you MUST accept whatever they agree on. Better if you have some input, yeah? If you need help with what to say or do, or with what happens and what does not happen, there are plenty of good people here who have been there and done that already. Ask questions, and try to find a solution that works FOR YOU. Only you will know what that is. Pookie
  12. Gonna reply properly tonight, but for now I just wanted to say you can use the word "spanking" here without anybody laughing or pointing at you. Every girl here has either been spanked, still gets spanked, or probably is going to be spanked. It feels kind of strange but yeah, you can talk openly about it here if you want
  13. If you are happy and secure where you are, with a family who love you, that is enough for now. When it is time for you to move on, or follow a different path, a door will open. Enjoy each day for what it is, you will never have that day again.
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